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Letters to a Young Seeker (Vol. 47)

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Dear Fellow Traveler,

One of life's more interesting and humbling aspects is that we don’t always see clearly. Our perceptions, memories, and minds are not as accurate as we think.

In his book Be Here Now (published in 1997), the former Harvard professor turned spiritual teacher Ram Dass observed,

The human mind is like that monkey, incessantly active by its own nature, then it becomes drunk with the wine of desire, thus increasing its turbulence. After desire takes possession comes the sting of the scorpion of jealousy at the success of others, and last of all, the demon of pride enters the mind, making it think itself of all importance.

Although this is a rather sharp observation of human nature, we can all agree that there are bits of truth here—if one dares to observe themselves closely.

Paradoxically, the project of becoming wiser connects with an acceptance of one’s limited knowledge (and perception). Consider Socrates proclaiming, ā€œAll that I know is that I know nothing.ā€ However, the practice of humility is often misunderstood.

In Think Again, the organizational psychologist Adam Grant explains,

One of the Latin roots of humility means ā€˜from the earth.’ It’s about being grounded—recognizing that we’re flawed and fallible. Confidence is a measure of how much you believe in yourself. Evidence shows that’s distinct from how much you believe in your methods. You can be confident in your ability to achieve a goal in the future while maintaining the humility to question whether you have the right tools in the present.

  • How do you define (or think about) humility in daily life?

  • Is there anyone you know (past or present) who models humility?

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