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Letters to a Young Seeker (Vol. 10)

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Sep 21, 2023
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Greetings Readers!

Here is the next volume of our series — Letters to a Young Seeker (Catch up on previous volumes: Don’t Forget to Live, Break Bread with the Dead, Live an Examined Life, Carry the Fire, The Art of Optimism, Think Like a Mortal, Trust Thyself, The Art of Being, and Freedom and Responsibility).

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Felix Feneon at the Revue Blanche by Felix Vallotton (1896)

Dear Fellow Traveler,

Life is paradoxical. In many ways, our seeking (for wisdom, God, and so on) often leads back to ourselves. The project is not necessarily self-improvement; it is one of self-discovery and acceptance. The nineteenth-century psychoanalyst Carl Jung called the notion of becoming who we are the privilege of a lifetime. However, this is no simple task, according to Jung.

A parable about a conversation between a journalist and a monk highlights this point: The journalist asks, “What is wrong with the world?” The Monk responds by asking, “Who are you?”

The journalist answers, “I’m a journalist.” The monk says, “No, that is your profession; who are you?” The journalist responds, “I’m John Smith, from America.” The Monk says quickly, “No, that is your name and where you’re from — who are you?”

The journalist becomes a little confused and answers, “I’m a human being.” The monk pauses and responds calmly, “No, that is your species. The problem with the world is that we don’t know who we are.”

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